How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 16:48
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
NCAA approves multiple major rule changes in men's college basketball - On3.com
Do not set goals—set systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What is the meanest thing your husband has said to you?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Microsoft lays off hundreds of WA workers, weeks after companywide cuts - The Seattle Times
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Ask yourself:
Does not procrastinate.
1st measles case of the year in South Dakota as CDC updates travel guidance - ABC News
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Can ringing in the ears be a sign of spiritual awakening?
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why are so many young teenage boys misogynistic? Where do they get these attitudes from?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Planet Nine? Not quite, but some astronomers think they've spotted a new dwarf planet - NBC News
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How conservative the Japanese people really is? And the government?
Procrastinates a lot.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Street Dog Who Fought to Survive by Eating Rocks and Dirt Has Us in Tears - PetHelpful
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Wing and Walmart are bringing drone delivery to 100 new stores - The Verge
Making more friends is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What I need from you?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.